How would you like to increase happiness and being together with spouse

           "How can i make my husband/wife happy and remember good stuffs rather bad stuffs"

Basically if you closely observe your elder family members ( grand parents ) or people who live simple life in villages etc you can find answer easily. But let me share what i found as an answer for myself.

I found my parents (who live in modern world and still follow simple life), always talking about some travel they made year back, couple of years back, marriages that they attended, temples that they visited, climate conditions during some of their outings, some small challanges and fun involved in solving those etc very frequently.

I thought, they are simply spending their time as they are mostly free ( no TV watching habit, no mobile habit, no cricket watching, no talking of politics etc ).

But trick is this:
"if randomly some one comes and asks a question how is life?" you always speak that is recent or top of mind.

So what my parents were doing was simple thing: Try to refresh mind with things which they enjoyed as spouse or partner to each other. Thus i see them always smiling, doing more work at home and being positive.

But today new generation always talks only about things that happened bad and hence always are under stress and feeling negative. Even if nothing going wrong in family they talk about things going wrong in politics, serials, movies ...